Want to upsert data from XML file to SQL Server ?
Upsert: inserts rows into a table if they do not already exist, or updates them if they do.
Using File To DB, a native GUI tool for Windows, MacOS, and Linux, you can upsert data from XML file to SQL Server easily and fast, no need to program, just a few mouse clicks!
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Upsert data from XML file to SQL Server
Choose SQL Server and logon.
Click “Wizard – 1 File To 1 Table” at task dialog.
Select the “XML” file type.
then show the wizard.
1. Open a XML file.
2. Select a table and config fields.
Set “Load Type” to “Upsert”, choice “By Key”.
3. Preview data.
4. Upsert XML data to SQL Server .
You can schedule and automate this converting task by:
1) Save session and create .bat file.